“If a Woman didn’t exist, all the money in the World would have no meaning.” Onassis
I have always been, even as a child, aware and appreciative of elegance and sophistication. I had a natural draw towards Powerful, yet elegant Women and fashion. Usually these type of Women were mostly on the arm of a distinguished Gentleman visible primarily through media, magazines, and Hollywood movies. In My real life, I was surrounded by these type of sophisticated Women in My family and always in Church.In today’s society, Women are more than holding their own and doing it for themselves. “Girl Power” its called,… and I salute the Culture!
Throughout My upbringing and within the cultures that I was born into, a Woman was the nurturer, although sometimes not honored or respected as such being the glue of the family. It is often through Her strong presence and managerial skills behind the scenes that allow the family. to function smoothly. Observing the satisfaction of all who depended on Her is how I learned all of these same skills. Learning and applying those skills, is how I managed to care for Myself in this world of dog eat dog mentality reality throughout My life. Being brought up to be a True Lady helped Me to be graceful and patient in the maneuvering of the World at a fairly early age. These skills learned would be applied in the foundation of the FemmeDomme Lifestyle that I was embarking upon.
I was trusted and counted on,… ironically, by adults as a young child. I saw a lot of things suited for a child’s eyes, and also things not suited for a child’s eyes. It taught Me that I was a person who was strong, courageous, bold, yet tender, kind, compassionate, and at the same time bashful,.. until it was time for action.
Growing up amongst older relatives, I learned that there was a lot of manipulation going on. I have always had a naive optimistic and motivating type of spirit,… but what I experienced growing up taught Me to be wise and to learn from other’s mistakes. I quickly developed a soft spot for the “underdog”, as I was also one of the underdog. I was very different from those who I grew up with within My family, and childhood friends. Having a pure heart, soul, and unique spirit caused Me to be too honest for My own good. Being outspoken and confident in who I was had already caused Me to have a target on My back from My more traditional relatives and childhood “friends” who lived closed minded with stereotypes and conservative values.
Today, this is called being bullied. I for sure was getting a real dose not understanding what about Me triggered reactions like this from the very people who are suppose to love you as you are, especially being a child still. Being “different” or misunderstood can certainly go against you in life. I embrace it and it has kept Me true to Myself, and has been My experience until this day. I encourage others to honor themselves in this way and I have made it My mission to help and assist those who come across My path.
As time went on, I was not consciously choosing mates that were to Honor Me in the way that complimented My FemDomme characteristics. Today,… this is a non negotiable in order to honor the authenticity of My current lifestyle. I practice what I preach and I live My life on My own terms, no matter what other’s think about My Lifestyle and the way I spend My time.
I found that being kind, being fair to others, being open minded, and giving the benefit of the doubt to people was mostly not beneficial. The hopes of being appreciated for what I brought to the table, well let’s just say… it was a long waste of My time. Traditional relationships and being a Feminine/Dominant Woman with a more traditional alpha male, I found was not ever going to work for Me after a number of years of not truly embracing, and fully honoring My position and characteristics of the Woman that I know that I am.
This goes both ways, for males & Females. I always advise the submissive males that I come across,…if you love the look and feel of pantyhose, then don’t marry a Woman who doesn’t feel lovely or confident wearing a short skirt or dress. If wifey doesn’t want Her legs and feet to be seen, adored and finds that quite strange, and odd in nature for Her,… then you’ll always be on the prowl giving your hard earned income to a Woman like Me, who lives for, loves, and appreciates, those who adore what I wear.
Marrying for qualities like being a great mother to your children is wonderful, and looks great on paper,… but will you stay faithful in your relationship? Likely,… more times than not, you’ll find yourself longing and living to satisfy your fetish needs outside of your traditional home. Who is this fair to? Time is very, very precious, and time waits for no one. Be true to yourself! If you cannot find the strength to do so as a single man, or if you are locked inside this type of relationship/marriage with your partner, then I am here for you!!
How did I come to take on this belief? One day I had an epiphany! I recalled My Grandmother’s sacred words of advise. My Grandmother help to raise Me and I, in turn devoted years of My life to take care of Her and Grandfather until the end of their lives. She instilled and helped Me to have faith and honor and appreciate Myself, and to know and respect My worth. She said to Me one day,… “your skin is looking great, it’s glowing!” She asked Me with a flirty smirk on Her face…”what have you been up to young Lady?” I said innocently… nothing much Grandmother, with a question mark in My tone.
Next, She spoke these very important words that I will always respect, and will never forget. She said,… “Don’t ever give your time away for free. You’re precious and your time is very Valuable,… and remember, a man should always love you more than you love him.”
At this time, Grandmother’s age was possibly in the late 70’s early 80’s and Grandmother was a Christian. She didn’t speak of sexual topics at all. So when she told Me this I was very shocked and puzzled as to why she chose to say this to Me.
I questioned Myself if she was possibly now in the early stage of dementia where you can remember everything from very long ago, but forget what has just recently happened within an hour, or even minutes ago. I didn’t question it for long. It was advise that was out of character from the Bible thumping Grandmother that I loved and respected, and so I took this advise concretely serious and I began to apply it immediately at that particular time in My life.
It took Me a few more years before I would grow and surrender to My FemDomme lifestyle 24/7 and not settle for less from a man. Grandmother’s words rang to be true, and so I made a promise to Myself that I would never be with a full-time natural alpha male ever again. I knew in My core, that I would never be happy without a natural born beta male mate that was born to appreciate, and desired a FemDomme Woman like Myself.
My actual preference is an alpha male in business, and a beta male in My home. I really just call him an “Extreme Gentleman”. He is smart, kind, thoughtful, and wants to be accepted for his “Power exchange” and offers his Loyal Devotion to Her. He is not a doormat/simp. A naturally kind, nice-Gentleman,… wrapped in Intelligence always Wins with Me!!!!!
This type of male knows and accepts that he must love the Woman more and he lives to show it by his service. His every waking moment is to find the Woman who will allow him to be this way effortlessly 24/7, or a much a possible depending on his home life situation.
A few years later while planning a U.S. east coast tour as a Pro Domme for caged submissive males,… I said a very specific Prayer. I asked God for a perfect help mate who was interested only in serving in My FemDomme lifestyle. This helpmate showed up to Me on the first day of My east Coast Launch. From the day we met, he had become My finslave and found himself offering himself up for a FLR for Me to consider.
Who Am I???
I Am “Miss Blackie Ona$$is”.
I Am the Last, and Only Woman in your life that you’ll be happy and genuinely excited to devote all of your hard earned and/or Old money- income/Currency to… simply because I Truly appreciate it, and I Deserve this level of Care & Support. You love to do it because you see and understand within you that My smile is Genuine, and I am truly Grateful for your efforts.
All importantly,… it makes you happy to be able to do so. This service goes along with the grain of your soul to be allowed to Serve in this way. The feeling to be used without question or conflict, and having the understanding from a Woman who welcomes your way of thinking,… is who I Am.
Because I am a humble Woman, I don’t feel that I need to toot My own horn. I will be happy to allow you to read a real Testimony of a finslave’s point of view.
In his written Testimony, you will understand the degree of the Power that is within Me. You will read about the Trust that has been bestowed upon Me,…from one who had a lot to hide, and much to lose. He knew after meeting Me immediately, that he had even more to gain by surrendering it all… for the Privilege of Serving Me with his heart, mind, soul, and wallet. He passionately offered himself, and still is held in FLR Ownership by Me… The SUPERIOR Female MASTER.
This finslave wanted to share his point of view with other like minded financial submissive males who truly seek out this Lifestyle, and who understands this quote below to be the Truth, and nothing but the Truth.
“If A Woman didn’t exist,…All the Money in the World would have no meaning,” Onassis